Excerpt from KRCS Graduate John Lay's Speech at Baccalaureate 2024
I think I speak for all of us when I say we are both excited and a little nervous about going to college. Proverbs 19:21 states, "Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails."
While reflecting on this, I remembered a conversation with Mr. Boaz during my second-period AP Psychology class this year. On this particular day, I walked in and told him I hadn't studied for the test that I was about to take. I said I either knew the material or I didn't. He responded with something along the lines of, "Well, you must be suffering from learned helplessness."
I hadn't heard of this term before, so I asked him what it meant. He just stared at me. It turns out that was a question on the test. Now I understand that learned helplessness is an individual's wrongly perceived belief that external events control their lives and that they have no control over what happens to them. So, they give up.
In a sense, learned helplessness is not entirely incorrect. We cannot always control external events – such as natural disasters, deaths, or the actions of others. However, we can always control our reactions.
The faculty at King's Ridge Christian School have guided us in this, making it their personal mission to teach us how to react with reason, judge fairly, and think critically. As we step into the future, we can control our character, and by following God's guidance, we can become the people we are meant to be.